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FIRE & ICE
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Question Thursday, December 24, 2009
Hey Fire & Ice, this is in reference to the note about why girls have baby's for guys just to label them as baby daddy. I just want to know what about the guys who create an illusion for girls about how much they love them, want to be with them, want them to have their baby's & will take care of their responsibilities no matter the situation, just to lock them into their lives for good? There are PLENTY guys out there that do this, and in all honesty THAT AINT RIGHT!!! I have 2 kids for one man, and with our situation today I can't help but ask myself why was I so blinded by all of these false hopes and promises? After my second child came, he left and I have hell to get him to see his kids! So to all you men who really DON'T want children and only want the girl to be labeled as your "BABY MAMA" grow up and wrap it up!!!
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- Ice
I couldn't agree with you more. However, everyone has a choice in the direction in which they want their lives to go. Now, I do know that Men have all the slick words that can make a female feel as though she's on top of the world however, Women need to also explore the possibilities that he may not be in their life. Now, the note you refered to was a girl that just wanted a baby because SHE wanted a BABY not the whole Baby Daddy per say....Those girls need the reality check....I also encourage everyone to use protection.....
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- Fire
Writer, you have hit the nail straight on the head! People are sometimes so quick to judge the females but never know the lies their heads were filled with. Unfortunately some of them (moms) cant take care of the kids alone and then the innocent kids have to suffer.
I think before any female decides to have a child, she should do the math...if she cant afford to do it alone then dont have the child!
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