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Question   Monday, September 21, 2009

F&I Whats ur thoughts on this..a friend of mine is havin a Babe just because she wanted one. She trapped these guys into sleeping with her. Some used protection, some she convinced not too. She has no steady boyfriend... Now shes havin a babe but neither of the guys know and she hasnt told them because she really wants to keep the child. I told her she is crazy & selfish and could of caught a lot of other things besides a Babe. My advice to all the guys is to buckle up and watch out for selfish women like her. I'm her friend but very disappointed in her ....she belongs on the Maury show!!

- Ice

I think your friend needs help, and your right she does need to use protection. It sounds like she's very immature for wanting a child just because, I hope she knows its more than a cuddly baby.....I feel for these guys they shouldn't be left in the dark like that....
- Fire

Ice, I agree with you but I think that the situation is a little deeper than what we are seeing. She obviously has horrible self esteem to want to bring a child into the world for her own selfish reasons. I wonder what she is going to do when the novelty wears off? When the child is screaming and pooping? And I wonder what she expects these poor unsuspecting men to do? Just accept this child because she wanted it? And God only knows what will happen if they/he turn their/his back or her because of her entrapment. Who has to suffer...the innocent child. So pathetic.

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