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Question Tuesday, June 30, 2009

For sure there are too many sperm donors out there and not enough fathers out there. I'm a 26 year old man and i never had a father because he died , so I know what has to be done. For sure time goes out the window when you have kids, its not about you anymore it about that child in every way that they need you.

- Ice

Thanks for your response. I agree with Fire it's not often that we hear from men regarding this topic.

- Fire

Thanks for sharing that; it's refreshing to hear it from a man!

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