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FIRE & ICE
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Question Monday, September 21, 2009
Hi Fire And Ice... I just wanna talk to all the men out there real quick... im a 24 yr old man with a 2yr old daughter. At first i was scared as hell when my mother of my child told me she was pregnant...(and most of us do feel that way ladies)i never grew up with a father,my father left when i was 5. First thing that came to mind was that i was gonna be a dead beat father like him. But i had to step up to the plate and become a man for my child. i am no longer with my baby mother due to differences..(mainly her cheating on me) but that doesnt stop me loving my daughter, i love spending time with her even though me and her mother dont see eye to eye anymore... i also just got in a new relationship with a loving and beautiful woman that also means the world to me. Basically what im saying to the fellas is step up and be a man take care of kids even though you have started a new life with a different woman. I treat my woman like a queen and treat my daughter like a princess because thats how much they mean to me. THE WORLD
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- Ice
This is so encouraging and I hope other men read this and take note....Thanks for sharing this and keep treatin them the same...
Bless Up!!
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- Fire
Thank you so much for your testimony. You are such a prime example of taking a negative situation and ensuring that you do not copy it. I hope you tell as many males out there to do the same because it seems like men are turning their backs on their children at every turn. Keep doing what you do!
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