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FIRE & ICE
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Question Monday, August 31, 2009
Hi fire and ice, in response to "April 3 baby mamas", my man has a 2 year old daughter who is his world and would lay his life on the line for her. He cherishes every moment he spends with her and sometimes he has her more then her mother does. I never come between their time together because that is his child and she was there before me. He has learned to balance his time between us both and sometime in the future we will work out were all three of us can spend time together. When you have a child I don’t believe, contrary to popular belief, that quality time is dead. If you have both parents doing what they are suppose to and working together you can have your quality time. It also helps that he has a great support from his family. So many people are to busy fighting and bickering with each other then trying to work together for their child’s sake as well as their own. I am someone new coming into the picture and that is their daughter I don’t say a word. He comes to me to vent, I listen and then he feels better. I don’t tell him what to do it’s their child. All I have to say is that it can be done, a man taking care of his child needs as well as his woman’s needs, and my man is living proof. He is doing a wonderful job as a father and boyfriend and we are both lucky to be loved by a wonderful person. No woman should ever have a problem sharing a man with his child….at least it’s not with another woman ;)
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- Ice
Thanks for your feedback.....this was just what we needed to hear, some good common sense.....I totally agree!!
Bless!
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- Fire
I take off my hat to you for such an enightening response. A sign of a mature woman! I applaud your man for finding balance...do you know how many women wish they had men like that?
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