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Question   Monday, May 18, 2009

Hi Fire and Ice. I'm a confused twenty something woman who does not understand how trifling women end up with good man. You have some men out there complaining how they can't find good women but when one comes along and they get together,they leave the good woman to go back to the trifling woman he just left. And the most confusing thing is he knows what type of woman she is but still went back. I thought we were in good relationship and happy. He was taking me out, introducing me to family members and he also gave me the Girlfriend title. So I'm just wondering what men are really looking for in a good women because they say women are confused but I think some men are more confused then women.
- Ice

I can defiantly agree with your view that men are almost more confused than women.....However, we hear this topic all the time.....Fellas come and give some of your view point..
- Fire

I wonder the same thing ALL the time. And the part that aggravates me even more is that when they do get a decent woman, they treat her badly sometimes because they are so used to being wronged by the rats they usually attract. This dating world is crazy!
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