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Question   Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Can I ask why "people" still have a problem with interacial dating and above that why racism seems to be becoming more prominent in Bermuda? You would think by now it would be something of the norm to see people of all shades here on our Island. I just don't get it and not to point fingers as I am very neutral in this situation but it seems like black women are the worst when it comes to this topic. They seem to take total offence if they see a black man with a white woman, oh and don't let the guy be one of their old flames cause at that point you know the world is coming to an end lol. -NEWS FLASH- You can't help who you love & love is not prejudice. We would all be better off if we shared a little more love with our fellow Bermudians - One love Bermuda!
- Ice

I dont see the rascism factor but we might very well be in differet places of Bermuda and not see the same things. Now, as far as your second portion I feel thats just women period especially if they really like the guy too.
- Fire

While I think that you should be able to love who you want in peace, I think that the reason why some Black women are so angry is because they are jealous 'cause they can't find any decent Black men 'cause they are with White women!

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