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Question Tuesday, April 15, 2008

not a question a comment really. I'd just like to say it takes two to tango. As young blacks and whites, until we women stand up and settle for nothing less then what we deserve,and gain some self respect for ourselves. We allow our brothers to have thier cake and it it too. I been there and have asked for forgiviness and learnt a very valuable lesson in the process. But ladies all I'm saying is before you jump on the ladies, talk to your man first. I literaly had to send a rstraining order and letter to get this.

- Ice

I totally agree with you women should look at their man first. But they very rarely do.

- Fire

Yeah, a lot of people don't get that! They want to go and beat up the woman but let their men off the hook! So unfair! YOUR man owes you the explaination, not her although she is wrong too! WISE UP women, WISE UP!

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