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Question Friday, April 04, 2008

Hi Fire and Ice, I am a Bermudian living a blessed life on the East Coast, I read the questions/comments on this site from time to time and want to suggest a great book for you to read as well as every woman in Bermuda. It's called "He's Just NOT That Into You." It focuses on relationships and dating etc and how we (women) make excuses for a man's behaviour and actions. This book was featured on Oprah and written as a spin off from the HBO series "Sex and the City." It can help women weed out the BS right away and not waste any more time, with a guy, who is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU...Women can relate to every chapter in this book with a little humor on the side!

- Ice

Thanks on this information.

- Fire

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