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Question   Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Why do women feel that they are with their men when the relationship has been over for sometime. Some women are in denial because they see what they want to see, so when the guy moves on the other women is labelled as the mistress. But since we all like to juice up a story, all those women who are quick to call the other women names and try to embarass them in public. My thing is why do say you move on, and when he does, its all drama? Secondly, Dont blame the men for finally moving on with there lives, blame the women have for having second thoughts, when its too late.

- Ice

Now, I agree and DISAGREE!!!!!!!! There are alot of women out there who fall for anything and stay in something and yes there will be drama but WE/YOU don't know what the guys are saying to the girls that are already in the picture as the "girlfriend"......On your second statement that sounds like a personal experience and I'll leave that one alone.
- Fire

I agree with Ice, men can be some conniving so and so's when they are ready and will tell a woman whatever they think they need to hear in order to get some booty. HOWEVER, my dear scorned women, when a man tells you it's over, accept it and BOUNCE! Who wants someone who doesn't want them!

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