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FIRE & ICE
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Question Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Hi Fire & Ice, this is in response to the men wondering where the good women are. Firstly dating can be rough. If you are constantly meeting up with people who aren't willing to put in 50% (spoiled) and trying to play games (conceited, untrustworthy) you may be attracted by all the wrong things - clothes, shoes, hair, nails, car etc. Those things are all good but obviously we are looking for something more. Try going somewhere out of your usual routine and you may be surprised at who you'll find. I'm not saying that if she's dressed to the nines she's triflin and anyone looking shabby is a gem, but if you're stuck in a rut try something new. Also figure out what you do want and how to find out if someone has those qualities (tact please!) before you waste too much precioius time.
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- Ice
I agree with your concept but many people like to stick to what they know. Sometimes people are together with a person for years and still dont even know the real them, people show what they want to be seen, so for people dating just take one day at a time and if something interest you follow that lead.
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- Fire
Sometimes you have to think outdside the box, so I agree with you wholeheartedly. I think part of the problem is that people are so desperate to find their forever that they settle for the first thing that comes their way.
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