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Question   Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Hi Fire and Ice...does this 25 yr old have a kid(s)? I have to ask because I am a 23 yr perfessional lady who is also looking for a REAL MAN. I too am looking to buy my first home at the end of this year and believe I am very accomplished for my age. This can go for the other men writers who say that they are looking for a good woman to commit to. The reason I ask if he has a kid(s) is because (not to be selfish) I would perfer to be with a person who does not, because I would like to experience that part of life with my significant other firsthand. I am open to perhaps being with a man who knows how to accomidate both of these parts of his life, but so far have been unable to find that. Which takes me back to not wanting to be with a man with a kid(s). A little off topic but if you can find out that info for me and if he is real about wanting to start a relationship (friendship, dating, or real commitment *eventually* (we all know this doesn't happen overnight)then maybe we can get in contact with each other. I also love your suggestion about the social network for people like myself. Sounds like a business I can perhaps start. (Make it private) Something like a dating service.

- Ice

Well I have not heard of this in Bermuda and nowadays finding that man is very rare and in minimal quantity so good luck for your find.
- Fire

Don't exclude men who have children because in most cases they are not the problem...it's their trifin "baby mamas".

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