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FIRE & ICE
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Question Thursday, March 13, 2008
I want to ask single females this.. Why do some single females try to get involved with guys who have girlfriends.. I mean can't you find somebody who is single themselves and work with that.. I have a friend who just called it QUITS (the girlfriend is pregnant as well) with her boyfriend cause she found out that he was just friends with this girl and then it went from being friends to calling and texting each other, then when he is out she is in the same place, then get this one (we figured out this purselves) his godchild's mother is friends with the girl and she invites the boyfriend out.. She tried to talk to him and find out what is going on and as usual he denied it.. What is up with our bermudian women that we HATE on each other.. I mean if somebody is happy in their relationship encourage it don't come between it.. Cause I live by the saying " how you get them is how you LOSE them"... But I see this topic is a lost cause... Not everybody thinks the way some do..
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- Ice
I agree with your saying, However, it may not have neccessarily been the girl maybe the guy showed interest.......either way we females are always QUICK to blame the women instead of the men to........so if he was happy he wouldn't have been out there entertaining the other female regardless of her interest in him.
But no not eveyone thinks the same as others thats just the way is made.
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- Fire
Unfortunately, you are right. I don't get it either but that's just how a lot of people choose to operate. I agree with Ice wholeheartedly sorta...we have to start putting the onus on the men who do this crap. I don't think happiness is always a factor when people cheat, some men are simply greedy.
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