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FIRE & ICE
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Question Thursday, March 13, 2008
i am a woman of 57 years, married at 25, divorced 17 years later, with three children. i have spent the last 20 odd years with two different men. this last one has really done a job on me. He will go abroad from Bermuda on a Trip off Bermuda at least three times a year, and not tell me that he is going. He will go away for at least three to four weeks. my problem is that when I want to go out, just on the premises (I live on top of a disco club) I must be out there doing wrong. Believe me I am not. the man is so insecure, i can not deal with this, anymore, I like to meet people, to cut this short I am a Scorpio. But I am a one man woman, I will not sleep around in this world today. But my problem seems to be that he can come do as he pleases. Yet when I do go out (on the premises) I'm a bad bitch. Please tell me something, I don't want to bore u to much with the problems that I see. Many guys & girls tell me to get out, but because I think that I'm in love, I put up with a lot from this 50 year man. There is more, but I dont want to bore u.
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- Ice
Girl the signs are right there in front of you. I'm gonna cut to the chase and give it to you straight since your a GROWN adult. Noticed I highlighted GROWN, no one can tell you that you can't go out. He is only doing what you have allowed and continue to allow so the choice is yours, make the change or keep abiding by his laws. However, if your not going to do anything about it then it makes NO sense complaining about it.
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- Fire
I don't care if you are 57 or 27, no woman deserves such stupidity. You have made it clear that you are seeing the writing quite clearly...he is most likely cheating and that's why he's always accusing you. I think that you need to break things off with him or cool it off because you are too mature to be dealing with boyish crap.
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